If i understand you correctly, you essentially want to package your compiled program with all the neccesary libraries and your actual compiled code.
Ive sent stuff to other people that use my program, and a library, say SDL to other people by simply sending all relevant exes, dlls and possibly images you may need in something like a zip file.
I dont know if a packaging tool exists, but in my oppionion you probably dont need one.
Also you might want to send your release compiled version since the default release settings are to perform the slower optimisations and not include the debugging symbols.
Hope that answers your question