ollydbg : Good news, Code::Blocks can do this allready !
But with latest SVN version, you can't alter it's colour, it simply uses the normal text colour and I find that a bit too intrusive.
In this screenshot, I altered the default to use a light grey. You hardly notice it unless you need it, which is way better than the black it had before. About any other editor that I know of and tried can do this, and once you get used to a feature and you change apps, you start to miss it...
A lot of other editors and Scintilla also allows you to set the whitespace background color and the size of the dot, but I don't really see the use for these extra features so I didn't add them (although it would be very easy to add them)
-Yves